Please help...
Posted: 10 Jun 2011, 18:53
I've got a serious problem, and I don't know where else to turn.
A good friend of mine is becoming a completely different person. I know they say people change drastically as they grow up, but he's changed so radically and I'm losing control of the situation. It's almost as though he's taken on another personality entirely. Sometimes I see his old self, and it makes me sad that he's changed so much in such a short time. Part of me is desperate to keep him from becoming something he's not, and yet part of me knows that people change, and that maybe I need to let go and accept him for who he is now.
Suffice to say, I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Where do I go from here? Is there some way that I can get him to see how much he's changed? Or should I just move on and accept that thinking you're a 111-year-old lord is just... something that happens?
Help me Obi Wan Kenobi advice forum, you're my only hope.
A good friend of mine is becoming a completely different person. I know they say people change drastically as they grow up, but he's changed so radically and I'm losing control of the situation. It's almost as though he's taken on another personality entirely. Sometimes I see his old self, and it makes me sad that he's changed so much in such a short time. Part of me is desperate to keep him from becoming something he's not, and yet part of me knows that people change, and that maybe I need to let go and accept him for who he is now.
Suffice to say, I'm in a bit of a dilemma. Where do I go from here? Is there some way that I can get him to see how much he's changed? Or should I just move on and accept that thinking you're a 111-year-old lord is just... something that happens?
Help me Obi Wan Kenobi advice forum, you're my only hope.